Pursuit is the evidence of desire xoxo

Ladies, have you ever been so into a guy to stop yourself from calling, you leave your phone in your room then do as many things as possible to distract yourself... Thinking when I go back he would have called; only to go back to find NO MISSED CALLS! Why do we convince ourselves he would call just because we walked away for a little while.
Have you ever been so stuck on him that you switch your phone off and on just to ensure your phone reception working!
Have you ever been so stuck on him you call or text him “accidently”!
If you have answered yes to any of above, it’s time to wake up and get a grip lady! Men should not be able to take up so much our ‘mind space’ and this is why I titled this piece Pursuit is the Evidence of Desire.
Men are born conquers, they are naturally competitive and enjoy working hard for what they want. They like playing the role of a man, so allow them to. They respect you when you do not give yourself to them on the first date. The suspense it bitter sweet for him, of course he would like to spend the night with you, you are beautiful so of course he likes your smile and feels as though he could speak to you for hours, he has probably felt this way a few times before. Please do not misunderstand, I am not naming every guy on this earth a ‘heartbreaker’ but what I am sure of is he wants a woman he knows he had to fight for, he is a King and you are a Queen, you may even be his Queen so do not allow yourself to be anything less than that.
These are a few of the attributes I think a queen possesses;

A Woman who is patient

A Woman who is kind

A Woman who does not envy

A Woman who does not boast

A Woman who is not proud

A Woman who is not rude

A Woman who is not self-seeking

A Woman who is not easily angered and does not bring up past wrongs

A Woman who does not delight in evil

A Woman who rejoices in truth

A Woman who always protects, trusts, hopes and perseveres

A Woman who acts in love.

If he desires you he will pursue you so ladies don’t give him sex to get love and guys don’t pretend to love to get sex.

xoxo