In luvvvvvv xoxo

The beauty of a woman by Audrey Hepburn xoxo

"The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows and the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years."  

Fabulosity Awaits You xoxo

Creating a new hairstyle is never easy because it’s so much more than a hairstyle you want!!!

Let’s be honest ladies, you want a style that oozes sexy, easy to manage and highlights everything from the arches in your perfectly threaded eyebrows to the fullness of your supple lips! I know; I’ve been there... Hours in front of the mirror, browsing Google Images and franticly searching magazines as your stylist asks you; ‘What would you like to do today?.’ 

In that moment your heart sinks, you have no idea and as much as you adore your stylist you don’t want them to have complete control over your pride and joy; so you leave with the same hairstyle you left with on your last visit because it’s your safest option! 

But after the storm there is joy!!!  I am sharing and will continue to share this fabulosity! Below are a few hairstyles I love because they are all so sexy.

Enjoy x

 

Born to seduce ..............................................xoxo

Whoes that lady!!! Make a statement in these ultra chic pieces xoxo

Make a statement in these ultra chic dresses and super sexy fragrances xoxo

Achieve and maintain luscious lips with this simple guide! xoxo

I love my lips, they are one of my favourite features and because they are so important to me, I protect them. Our lips are prone to become dry in both warm and adverse weather conditions so it is important to shield them from the affects of good and bad weather. Exfoliating once a week will remove dead skin and help maintain soft, smooth lips. To exfoliate your lips you will need to mix sugar and a few drops of water until the mixture is at an applicable texture. Once this is complete cover your lips with the mixture and using a soft toothbrush; lightly brush your lips applying small circular motions. Once you are satisfied this is complete, splash a some cold water on your lips, to remove the remaining sugar; then rub a coat of Vaseline on your lips to lock in the moisture.

Now that you have completed the exfoliation process you need to maintain your lips so they stay soft and smooth. To do this you will need to apply a thick coat of Vaseline before you go to bed at night, this is important because the Vaseline will moisturise your lips while you sleep. Further to this when you wake up in the morning gently wipe away any excess Vaseline. After brushing your teeth splash your lips with cold water and apply a coat of Vaseline to your lips to lock in moisture.

Important

It is important you use a soft toothbrush, using a medium of hard toothbrush is too harsh for your lips and can result in your lips being permanently discoloured.

Try not to lick your lips, instead apply Vaseline or a lip balm if you think they are becoming dry. Licking your lips does not apply moisture to your lips it dries then out.

Drinking lots of water is a good way to improve your digestion, stay healthy and make your lips look plumper and smoother

xoxo

Pick & Mix xoxo

Pick and mix is a feel good task I created. It is simple and consists of all the things you love because you will be the author of your own ‘pick & mix’. 

What you will need... 

o   A container including lid. (A small food container would be perfect)

o   One sticky label or an A4 piece of paper torn in half and cello tape if you are not using a sticky label.

o    A marker pen – colour of your choice o   A notepad or 10 – 20 sheets of paper lined or unlined.

o   A biro o   A quite place, somewhere you will be uninterrupted for an hour or two.

Now that you have all your bits and pieces this is what you need to do...

o   Using your marker pen, write ‘Things that make me happy/ things I love to do’ on your label.

o   Stick your label to your box.

o   Now it’s time to fill your box. Using your biro take your note pad or pieces of paper and write all the things you love or like to do, things that make you happy and make you feel good and why! After you have written each thing rip it from the paper fold it up and place in your box. Fold it so you can’t see what is written on the paper. Continue to repeat this until your can’t think of anything else.

Here are some examples of things I have written and placed in my box;

o   Washing my hair in a hot shower, I love the feeling of the water... From the ends of my hair to the soles of my feet; it’s amazing.  

o   Bands/ solo artists/ open mic/spoken word in small intimate venueso   Black Jacko   Watching old school movies e.g. Grease, Brewster’s Millions, Dirty Dancing, Pretty woman, Rain man, Boomerang, When a man loves a woman etc

o   Eating and drinking cocktails at well established restaurants o   Painting my nails, red, nude, aluminous pink and French manicure on my natural nails... I like them short and squared

o   A candle lit bubble bath, it relaxes me and gives me time to stop and think.

o   Going to a far away island where the weather is hot the sea is clear blue, the people are welcoming and the food is good.

o   Having ladies nights in, food drinks, games and movies.

Once you have exhausted your feel good options mix up your pick & mix and put the lid on it, or dive in and find out what exciting thing awaits you...

On a regular basis I go to my pick & mix box. I shake it about and pick two or three this to do that day, the best thing about it is a automatically know I am going to love it because it’s made up of things I love to do and make me feel good. Get it? The purpose of pick & mix is for you to enjoy the quality time you spend with yourself and the time you spend with your friends, it’s a place to go for inspiration, variety in your weekend/ lifestyle.
 

What are you waiting for? Have a go!!!!I hope you are inspired xoxo

Weave, wax, thread, pluck, tan, massage, manicures, pedicures and everything in-between... Summertime is almost here!!!! xoxo

The sun has begun to peep through the clouds, the clocks are due to go forward on Sunday 27^th March and the birds will be singing before the ringing of your alarm interrupts your sleep. Yes ladies, summertime is almost here, but what does this mean? Braving the cold is finally over,  no more flinching at the gush of wind that challenges your every step, no more running to escape the sudden downfall of rain, no more wearing legging under jeans or layers upon layers under coats the time has come for the sun to hug your every step. 

It’s time to put away the coats, hats, scarves and gloves and step into the high heels, vibrant dresses, sunglasses and everything feminine. It’s time to make the streets of your city your catwalk!

But in order to feel completely fabulous in our femininity we must be ready from head to toe...

Treat yourself to... 

Water, yes as much water as you possibly can each and every day, it is good for you, will energise you and flush your insides out resulting in flawless glowing skin (bare in mind, water cleanses the body so your skin has the potential to get worse during the internal detox before getting better).

Thread, pluck or wax your eyebrows. Nothing beats a well shaped clean finished eyebrow; it will tidy up your overall appearance.

Wax, shave or hair removal every necessary area, the results will speak in volumes. 

Treat yourself to a full body massage, a good massage will probably put you to sleep but it is worth it! Your body will be completely relaxed, put a smile on your face and a bounce in your step.

Book an appointment and slip into that big leather sofa, allowing every nail and toe nail to be taken care of... Let them scrub away the walks of life from under your very feet as you relax. 

xoxo

10 Things I Want To Say To A Black Woman by Joshua Bennett .... I was lost for words!!!! xoxo

Attention!!!!!!! It's time to get your essentials in order xoxo

There are some items that you absolutely need ready and waiting in your closet. These make up the basis of your wardrobe; they’re the must haves, no matter what your style — the wardrobe essentials. To be considered a wardrobe essential, an article of clothing has to have several important attributes:

·       It must be versatile. This is the most important quality of an essential piece of clothing. One key factor in versatility is color. Because wardrobe essentials have to go with lots of other clothing, they tend to be monochromatic and neutral in color. They also must work with different outfits. A blazer that you can pair with a skirt, pants, or a pair of jeans is a good example.

·       It has to be of good, perhaps even exceptional, quality. A wardrobe essential makes a statement, and anyone looking should be able to tell that it’s top shelf. High quality also means that it wears well — very important for a garment that you’ll rely on again and again.

·       It should be in a classic style. You don’t want your wardrobe essentials to ever really go out of fashion.

·       It must be a 10. These garments, like everything in your closet, should have all the qualities of a 10, and because they form the basis of your stylish wardrobe, it’s okay to spend a little more for these than you would other, less essential, items.

A lot of wardrobe must-have items are black. Black garments offer many pluses: No one knows how often you wear them. Stains are difficult, if not impossible, to see. The color is flattering on every person and every body type. And with a black basic, you’re free to add color in other areas of your outfit and have fun with prints or great accessories.

LBD (Little black dress) Fashion trends come and go and hemlines move up and down, but the little black dress will always be stylish. In the words of the great designer Karl Lagerfield, “One is never over or underdressed with a little black dress.” Sexy, glamorous and timeless, the little black dress is one of the most essential items in any woman’s wardrobe. It should be sexy, yet sophisticated. It should be well-made and fit like a glove. Choose a LBD that make's you feel fabulous because it is a timeless investment. 

A Crisp White Shirt Practical and versatile, with so many styles and cuts to choose from, a classic white shirt can be paired with jeans or well-cut black trousers. Go for a men’s style for true chic. The white button-down shirt should fit you well. At first glance, your white shirt may look no different than the one your husband or boyfriend wears under his suits, but yours is made and cut specifically for a woman. It should be flattering and accentuate your best features.  

A Cashmere Cardigan With spring season’s floaty, feminine dresses, a cashmere cardigan is both practical and smart. Cashmere is expensive but worth it! Cardigan sweaters are great for those times when you don’t know what the weather will be like or if it’s the middle of summer and you get stuck in a ridiculously cold air-conditioned restaurant or office. If you get warm, you can always throw the cardigan over your shoulders and tie around your neck, and if you’re chilly, you can wear it.

Denim Jeans Few pieces feature more prevalently in a woman’s wardrobe than a pair of blue jeans. Relaxed, simple and sexy – denims can be casual or elegant, depending on how pieces are mixed together. 

Classic beige trench coat Very Audrey Hepburn. The trench is a timeless piece full of mystery and intrigue. Wear it with oversized shades for a look ultra-mysterious. Sexy over jeans or well-cut pants, the classic trench coat will take you from season to season. The classic trench is a necessary staple because it never goes out of style and you can wear it in just about any season.

A Classic Men’s Watch This enduring piece is stylish and trendy. Whilst women’s watch fashions come and go, a classic men’s timepiece breaks the rules and makes an individual fashion statement.

Earrings More of the diamonds and less of the pearls because they go with everything! Designer fake or original, no problem. Wear them day or night, to spice up a casual outfit. Don’t worry if you can't afford genuine diamonds studs! Cubic zirconia will do the job, just keep them small.

Pearls A set of pearls can be a beautiful accent to any outfit. They’re perfect for the office and for a formal affair. Obviously, real pearls are expensive, so if you can borrow from Grandma — lucky you! If not, you can buy fakes. Just play around with them. Pearls aren’t just for those who prefer classic styles. There are many ways to wear them, and a long strand can be worn with a casual outfit.  

Ballet Pumps For the times when common-sense must prevail over high-heeled chic. In the name of practicality, a pair of stylish flats are an essential element of any woman’s wardrobe. Black pumps go with everything, they won’t get too dirty, and they can also go from day to night. If you can afford only one pair of black pumps, go with a dressier pair; shoes are generally easier to dress down than to dress up. When buying shoes, make sure they’re comfortable! Don’t expect them to “break in.” You’re going to spend some money on them because shoes tend to cost a bit more, so make sure they fit right.

High-Heel Shoes A pair of classic black high-heel shoes are timeless, but don’t forget to be adventurous with seasonal colours. Impractical but sexy, a pair of ultra-high heels is a must-have to make any woman feel feminine and poised.

A classic handbag!!!! No need for an explanation

Black leather bag A black leather bag is a perfect everywhere bag, a bag you can wear to work, to lunch, to dinner, and even shopping on the weekend. It goes with everything, and you’ll feel comfortable using it with whatever color or prints you may be wearing. It should be medium-sized: large enough to hold whatever you need during the day but not so large that it looks awkward if you find yourself running straight out to dinner with it.

Blazer After the dark jean, a blazer is the most versatile item in a woman´s wardrobe. Make sure the fit is good. It should be tailored at the waist to give you a nice hourglass figure. Also, pay attention to the shoulders. This is a small detail that can be overlooked, the result being some women end up looking like line backers by mistake. As with the jean, a blazer can be easily dressed up or down depending on the outfit. The black blazer is key in your wardrobe so avoid one that looks like something from the 80s — oversized with enormous shoulder pads.
Black trousers A pair of high-quality, flat front, black trousers are a necessity in every wardrobe. Stay away from pleats because they only accentuate an area that no one really needs accentuating! If you can buy only one pair of trousers, select a length that matches the heel height you most commonly wear. And choose a lightweight wool that will work in summer or winter. If you can buy another pair of trousers, ivory is great to have (even in the winter). Winter white is a refreshing change in the darker months, and it shows that you have style and are daring enough to let everyone know it.  

Leather Jacket It gives that little edge to sugar-sweet outfits.

Denim Jacket is a perfect companion to your sun dresses and summer months generally.

Sources: Myself, dummies.com & suite 101.com

xoxo

Do you dare to wear? xoxo

Applying it wasn’t the problem nor was pouting while dancing around in front of the mirror, singing Oooooohh sexy, sexsay!!! 

You would have thought, I was ready to take on the world with my hot new lipstick but in actual fact, it took me three weeks, to pucker up the courage and walk out in my loud shade! Why? Because it was so intimidating of course!!!!! 

I would apply it only to wipe it off before exiting my front door! Time to fast forward and insert; part confidence, part insanity... I have no regrets!!!! The right shade of red is a good investment; it has the ability to transform your outfit into fabulous but don’t forget, red is a power colour so my advice is to wear no eye make up when you wear this sizzling number, xoxo.

Maya Angelou's Phenomenal Woman xoxo

Colour me bright, colour me fabulous!!! xoxo

Colour me bright, colour me fabulous!!! A well applied manicure and pedicure makes all the difference ladies. For a longer lasting shine and a more durable coat apply a top coat before and after the nail varnish.

Ladies, its important you smooth, buff polish and shape your nails before you begin; it will make a huge difference to the overall finish! And even more importantley you wait for each coat to dry properly, so do this when you have about 2 hours to spare (approximately 30 minutes for each coat to dry) I know it’s a long time but it is worth it as on average my own lasts 7 days when done correctly xoxo

Celebrate your femininity xoxo

1.     Ladies, I'll let you in on a little secret; I love to look good and smell sweet but making the effort to do so when I’ve woken up with a headache, a bad attitude or just tired means it isn’t the first thing on my mind BUT throwing on anything is!!!!  And there it is; my mistake. A woman taking the time to take care of herself each morning should not be based on her feelings. Looking good and smelling sweet is a celebration of our femininity which should be celebrated every day. It is also a great pick me up, so however we are feeling, let’s strive for gorgeous inside and out every day.

Being a woman is awesome and here are a few pieces that have caught my attention ... xoxo